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KISS changes the rules about what a party can be.
Forget all your preconceived ideas, and let us show you what’s possible.
We host regular parties in the San Francisco Bay Area for members only.
Join our community of 8000 members to meet couples online and in the flesh.

Sexy

Our members are attractive, intelligent and thoroughly modern. Exploring our play rooms with your partner or new friends is a sexy adventure you will never forget.

Surprising

If we had a dollar for every time someone told us our parties weren’t what they expected we would be rich, so why not become a member and let us surprise you too?

Social

The scene here isn’t just about getting laid, it’s a community. There are lots of areas where you can hang out, flirt, dance, chat, meet new people, and be social, pressure-free.

Safe

Everyone comes with a date and you all go through the rules when you arrive so it’s crystal clear how things work. Our trained “Consent Concierges” will help if you have any problems.

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Etiquette

We've had years of experience throwing these kinds of parties.
We know that in order to create the right vibe you have to have some ground rules.

Communicate before you arrive If you are new to this kind of event, it’s important to have a chat about what’s ok and what’s not ok with your date before you arrive.

No Aggressive Cruising We insist that everyone respects each other’s boundaries. If you make anyone uncomfortable you will be asked to leave and your membership revoked.

Ask before you touch Place your hand near where you want to touch someone, catch their eye, and simply ask “may I touch you?” and then wait for a verbal “yes”, “please do”, or “Geronimo!” before you touch

Respect our space Be respectful of your surroundings and don’t make a mess! If you spill your drink, let the bartender know, and please use the trashcan for used safe sex supplies.

Respect all sexualities Although almost all play here is hetersexual with bi women, this is a safe space for bi men. Homophobia will not be tolerated. We think men should kiss more.

Don’t drink too much We are not trying to be party poopers, but we know from experience that excessive drinking can ruin everyone’s evening. If you are too drunk you will be asked to leave.

 

No single men! We don’t allow single men to arrive alone, and if you are a woman here with a date, please don’t leave without him! If you want to leave, then please leave together.

Dress well Both men and women should make an effort to be well groomed and well presented. If you arrive at our door wearing sportswear or sloppy, dirty clothes, you will be turned away.

Practice safe sex We provide safe sex supplies and leave you responsible for your own safe sex practices. Please let people know ahead of time if you have an STD and be aware of personal hygiene.

No cameras or cellphones Absolutely no cameras or cellphones are allowed to be used during the event in any areas of the club.

Report problems If you witness infractions of these guidelines, let a host know. Minor problems are addressed with a discrete chat and major problems are removed from the premises. Your identity will never be revealed.

 

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If you have any questions don't hesitate to drop us a line: 1 (650) 269 9600

ABOUT US

Our dedicated team of staff and volunteers are the ones who really make it happen, but we take the credit.
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POLLY

The Brains
Sex Culture Revolutionary, Community Builder, Radical Feminist, Professional Sexy Person. Founder of Kinky Salon and Mission Control. Author of this book.
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BEN

The Brawn
Businessman, Entrepreneur, Lifestyle Aficionado. Founder of Bronze Party, and co-founder of Modern Lifestyle. A lover not a fighter.

Testimonials

The origin of the word "testimonial" comes from ancient Rome, where men would hold each others testicles as a sign of truthfulness when they made a promise... and thus we present just a few of ours.

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